During an argument what behavior from your partner hurts you the most? Arguments are inevitable in relationships, but certain behaviors can cut deeper than others. Which of these hurts you the worst? Leave your comments!
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- Stonewalling (shutting down, silent treatment)53
- Dismissiveness ("You’re overreacting" )51
- Personal attacks (bringing up past mistakes)60
- Defensiveness (making excuses)26
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Israel
These all go hand in hand with each other! A person that knows exactly what they're up to will display ALL of these behaviours. No point arguing with them, go be peaceful 💙
Shawn Kohl
Honestly all of them
Joanne
Ok all of these suck but gaslighting and turning anything around on you and making it all your fault and them acting the victim is what has hurt me most in the past when arguing.
Chris Burtner
I been thru that too.Im sorry you had to experience it as well. 😔