User contribution: I am a widow and always wonder if it's a big deal with prospective dates or not. Does it make a difference in your decision-making if someone is a widow/widower?—Please vote and your opinion is essential!🙋‍♂️

Everyone keeps saying "unless they are over it". You never get over losing your soul mate to death. You do learn to live with it, you learn to accept that life moves on with or without them. Using the term "getting over it" is just, well something that people who never felt that kind of pain say.

Not a big deal. I would only be hesitant if it feels like he’s rushing to find someone new without taking time to grieve & process the loss

To me it doesn't matter. My late husband will always hold a special place in my heart but my heart has plenty of room to give someone else his own place.