Which of these is the BEST metaphor for a romantic relationship?
Love is a mystery, a feeling, an action... but if you had to compare it to something else, what would it be? Is it a necessity, a comfort, or an adventure?
Do you think someone’s zodiac sign can actually change the way you perceive them — either making you more curious or more cautious before you even meet? Share below if you have any interesting experiences or stories related to a zodiac sign!
“Be honest — do you think men’s emotional labor in relationships gets overlooked?”
We often hear about women doing the “invisible work” of caring, listening, and keeping the emotional side of a relationship together. But what about men? Do they also carry emotional weight that just doesn’t get recognized?
💬 Share your take in the comments: In your relationships (past or present), who usually ends up doing more of the “emotional support” work? Do you think it should be more balanced?
Assess this--even if they don't live @home:
Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better?
Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing").
Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate?
Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯
Mary Lelia
Don't judge the situation until you know the facts. 😂
Optimisticgeek
Assess this--even if they don't live @home: Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better? Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
Optimisticgeek
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing"). Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate? Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯