Can two people be perfect for each other but still not work out because of timing?
By ''timing'' we think about life circumstances, personal readiness, or other factors...Have you experienced this or seen it happen? Share them in the comment⬇️
Some people are totally comfortable sending the first message, asking someone out, or making their interest clear. Others prefer to wait for signals and see if the other person takes the lead. What about you?👀 Do you usually make the first move when you like someone?
In a relationship, do you expect your partner to open up about their struggles, or do you respect when they prefer to process things privately? Let's share below!
Assess this--even if they don't live @home:
Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better?
Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing").
Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate?
Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯
Mary Lelia
Don't judge the situation until you know the facts. 😂
Optimisticgeek
Assess this--even if they don't live @home: Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better? Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
Optimisticgeek
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing"). Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate? Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯