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User contribution: Would you be okay getting a STI/STD test if your partner asked? 🤔 Is it a reasonable request or does it rub you the wrong way? Share your thoughts and experiences! Let’s talk about how we handle these kinds of conversations and keep our relationships healthy and honest. 💬💕

Aug 27
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T. Gibson:
I would definitely be down to get tested for the sake of her and our growing relationship. It's worth it!! She's worth it!💓
Lynae Greene:
I wouldn't have a problem with getting a test like that. But how it was approached by my partner would matter. I've always been monogamous.
Tyshira:
Who ever said no your weird asl
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Would you be okay with your partner texting their ex?🤔 We all know relationships come with their fair share of boundaries and expectations. But when it comes to old flames, where do you draw the line? Let’s chat about it.👇

Aug 20
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  • Yes, if I’m in the know.
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  • No, it’s a red flag.
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  • Depends on the intention.
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short'n'handsome:
How about if you both agreed to split due to being more than partners, such as more like siblings, like myself and an ex of mine, friends for nearly 40 years now, but only dated for about a week or so back in 89
♻️🔱🌀:
Without children in the mix it usually makes no sense to see or text with exes while dating other people. Life ain’t like Elaine Bennes and Jerome Seinfeld, as much as they are funny on television. Maybe it depends on how bad the break up was or if it be amicable?
Anthony Martinez:
Broken marriages and relationships sometimes come with children. It’s important to have contact with your ex for the children
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Let’s dive into a tough but real topic today: Can a relationship ever get back to “normal” after someone cheats?🤔 It’s a question many of us might face at some point. We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this! Share them below. 👇

Aug 13
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  • No, it’s too hard
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  • Depends on the situation
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Jaymie:
They say cheaters never change. I guess I don’t fully believe that. Mistakes happen. Plus, the #1 cause for divorce in the US is financial conflicts. So, I guess all can be good until you mess with the money?
Jay:
Of course it can go back to normal under one particular circumstance. When the man is the breadwinner and has status and clout the woman tends to accept the cheating. At least for a time...
Michelle Belle:
Nah. If I get cheated on I would just leave. Betrayal is just wrong
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User contribution: Why does it seem like people are bailing on relationships faster than ever? Are we becoming a bit more selfish? Or is there something else going on? 🤔 Drop your thoughts below! 👇

Jul 30
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Noe R:
It is more easy this days trying to just hook up instead of having a relationship where only one part puts all the effort in mantain that relation it is frustrating
Chris W.:
To be honest, I think we are in a generation where the idea of “Commitment” and “relationship” is so intangible that not many even convince the word of it; the time I’ve spend even on dating apps I’ve noticed that some woman only want the attention of that the site can bring rather what it provides!
Sam:
The irony of the dating app pointing out the flaws in its own design is wonderful.
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