User Contribution: If there’s a genuine spark but you have different life goals, is it better to cut them off immediately to avoid heartbreak or continue seeing them knowing it won’t work out long term?
Mar 17
Options
- Cut it off early1222
- Try to compromise952
- Let it run its course797
154 likes
amarie:
I think compromise is a real option depending on what you're disagreement is
Michael Q:
Probably best to cut it off early. BUT! If there’s a genuine connection between you, try to foster that into a lifelong friendship!
Sarah:
Isn't it harder to find a genuine sparkle than to compromise on life goals? Unless it's something fundamental like having kids and the other person doesn't want to, most things can be renegotiated
Weekly Topic: Is it better to fall in love when your life’s going great or when you’re still figuring things out? 🤔 Does struggling make love more genuine, or is it better when you’re thriving and have more to give?
Mar 11
Options
- It’s better when life’s stable649
- Love’s deeper when life’s tough365
- Timing doesn’t matter if it’s real love1764
123 likes
CurvyBoricua:
👍
BEE BEE CEE:
I'll say love is better when both are on track, I experienced both sides and the situation is really tough for you or that person. Real love survives when it's something you both are going through I do believe that. But one person up/down for an extended period is going to cancel that long term
origie originals:
Love is a scam. Believe in you and love yourself as u love your neighbor. Nothing more
Would you be turned off if your date talked about their ex on the first date? What do you think? Would hearing about their ex make you lose interest, or does it depend on how they bring it up?
Mar 05
Options
- Yes1320
- No451
- It depends1769
99 likes
Tony :
I think definitely I'm going ask that question because you never know if they have a crazy ex not over them just showing up randomly 🤷
KC:
I’m Ik
Byron Griffin:
Byron Gffn boyfriend yes
User Contribution: Will you relocate for love? Why or why not? Take a moment to vote below and share your thoughts. 👇
Feb 25
Options
- Yes1117
- No809
- Maybe1221
118 likes
RedRo:
I would gladly relocate for marriage. Only!!
Mohonk:
Boston is cold as hell lol.
RBF:
If I were younger, had no kids, and no responsibilities then perhaps. Moving to an unfamiliar place is like starting over in life. However, this would have to be a true soul connection with dedication.