During an argument what behavior from your partner hurts you the most? Arguments are inevitable in relationships, but certain behaviors can cut deeper than others. Which of these hurts you the worst? Leave your comments!
Apr 22
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- Stonewalling (shutting down, silent treatment)535
- Dismissiveness ("You’re overreacting" )421
- Personal attacks (bringing up past mistakes)621
- Defensiveness (making excuses)219
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CaseyGall:
I think it’s a toss up betweeen Dismissiveness and Defensiveness that can hurt the most; the fact that you go to instantly dismiss with out hearing what is being said then jump to defending your thoughts to make sure it hurts… cruel.
tjc2005:
Why are you asking partner based questions to a load of single people? 😆
Jenn:
I don't like to argue, I like to calmly talk with my partner about whatever we disagree about. If they shut down then there's no opportunity to discuss what's going on. I find this as hurtful as yelling. If you need time to calm down that's ok, but don't shut down.
Is it normal to feel lonely in a relationship? You’re in love, but sometimes… it still feels empty. What do you believe and leave your thoughts!
Apr 15
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- Yes796
- No855
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Allen :
It's a sign that one isn't trying hard enough or that they have lost interest with means it's time to move on
ShaunSway:
If you’re in the wrong relationship/no longer in love
J. Eddings:
Being alone doesn't mean you're lonely but being in a relationship doesnt mean you have a partner either
Which scares you more in a relationship?😔 Every connection brings vulnerability — but which fear sits deepest in your heart?
Apr 08
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- Getting hurt1418
- Losing yourself592
- Not being enough1191
- Other - leave your thought229
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alex:
To avoid being hurt or disappointed just love a person for who they are not what you want
them to be, do not have expectations 💯 we're raised in different environments & different cultures. We all have differences you can't force person to fit in an environment they were not raised at.
julia hale:
Being in love alone
Ash:
Not being able to forget.
WeeklyTopic: Is it a problem if your BF/GF doesn’t introduce you to others? 🤔 Let’s hear your thoughts! How would you feel in this situation?
Mar 26
Options
- Yes1344
- It depends746
- No194
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Fidan Babayevafh:
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Rahne:
Going deeper, it depends on circumstances. But short answer, yes that’s an issue for me. If I’m serious about someone I want them to meet my loved ones and I would like to be included with theirs as well. Otherwise it feels like I’m not being taken seriously or that’s too much commitment for them.
Julie Oxley:
I feel like I'm being hidden by a Man that can't introduce me to family and friends